| Relationships |
| (Calculated from the demography records) |
| Name | | Relation | | G | Born | Place | Died | Place | Occupation |
| Richard Gilbert | | Grandfather | | M | 1789 | Acrise | 1863 | Elham | Farmer Of 285 Acres Employing 5 Labourers And 1 Boy |
| John Sparks | | Servant | | M | 1790 | Mersham | | | Miller Journeyman |
| Amelia Rogers | | Housekeeper | | F | 1815 | Guildford, Surrey | 1880 | | |
| Sarah Gilbert | | Mother | | F | 1822 | Elham | | | |
| Frederick File | | Father | | M | 1823 | Lyminge | 1902 | Elham | Carp And Smith Emply 3 Men 1 By |
| George Gilbert | | Father | | M | 1824 | Elham | 1903 | Elham | Farmer 270 Acr 7 Lb And 3 Boys |
| John Brittenden | | Servant | | M | 1833 | Ash | | | Carter |
| Sarah Dray | | Servant | | F | 1839 | Hawkinge | | | House Servant |
| John Kemp | | Servant | | M | 1839 | Upper Hardres | | | Carter |
| Henry Crouch | | Servant | | M | 1844 | Elham | 1919 | Elham | Farm Serv (Indoor) |
| Thomas Hogben | | Servant | | M | 1844 | Lyminge | | | Wheelwright apprentice |
| Alfred W Smith | | Servant | | M | 1844 | Elham | | | |
| Stephen Hayward | | Servant | | M | 1847 | Kent | | | |
| Jane Pott | | Servant | | F | 1848 | Kent | | | |
| Judith Gilbert | | Visitor | | F | 1851 | Alkham | 1939 | Elham District | Dairy Farm And Bourding House |
| Anne Maria File | | Sister | | F | 1852 | Elham | 1924 | Uckfield Sussex | Mothers Help (Dom) |
| Frank Hinds | | Apprentice | | M | 1853 | Tenterden | | | |
| William Carvell | | Servant | | M | 1854 | Elham | | | Ag Lab |
| Edward Savage | | Servant | | M | 1854 | Elham | 1935 | Elham | Farm Labourer |
| Emily Mary Harriet Broadbridge | | Sister | | F | 1856 | Elham | 1936 | Elham | Farmers Wife/Confectioner |
| Eliza Jane File | | Sister | | F | 1858 | Elham | | | |
| Frederick George File | | Brother | | M | 1860 | Elham | 1924 | Dover | Carpenter & Wheelwright |
| Mary Ann Gilbert File | | Sister | | F | 1863 | Elham | 1923 | Uckfield Sussex | |
| Sarah Elizabeth File | | Visitor | | F | 1866 | Elham | 1891 | Elham | |