| Relationships |
| (Calculated from the demography records) |
| Name | | Relation | | G | Born | Place | Died | Place | Occupation |
| Stephen May | | Father | | M | 1828 | Elham | 1912 | Elham District | Farmer Of 121 Acres Employs 2 Labourers |
| Elizabeth Ann Ellen | | Mother | | F | 1831 | Elham | 1893 | Eastry District | |
| John Ellen | | Servant | | M | 1841 | Elham | | | Butchers Servant |
| John Lanes | | Servant | | M | 1843 | Kent | | | |
| Ann Ellen | | Aunt | | F | 1845 | Kent | | | |
| Hawtrey James May | | Brother | | M | 1853 | Elham | 1942 | Bridge District | Grain Merchant |
| Ann May | | Sister | | F | 1856 | Elham | | | |
| Adelade Sophia May | | Sister | | F | 1864 | Elham | 1898 | Dover District | |
| Edith Hannah May | | Sister | | F | 1866 | Elham | | | |
| Percival William May | | Brother | | M | 1867 | Elham | | | |